Thursday, June 24, 2010

Blog# 6: Drastic College Dating


Dating in college has major pros and cons. It can lead to prosperity and eliminate your college worries but can also lead to distraction from academic success. Attending the same school as your partner can be demanding because it can distract you from your academic work and cause missed classes, failures in homework/exams and much more. A great privilege in dating in college is that having someone to care for and hang out can relief stress and make you feel like with no emptiness or loneliness. This sounds very good until a certain discussion or break-up gets in the way. As shown in Cosmogirl, dating can vary from dating in High School when it seemed easy to just forget about a ruined relationship. In college dating can get serious and even making someone drop-out just to be away from that certain relationship they don't wan't to deal with anymore. Dating in college can also lead to a marriage or a deep relationship that can lead to raising children.

When dating in college and attending the same class as your partner, it could become a bit overwhelming. Imagine having the "love of your life" sitting right next to you, talking and sharing each others thoughts constantly and then sooner or later your professor has to pause the lesson just to confirm that you've disrupted his class. Then you've noticed that your work is not done and probably won't get it done because you are with your partner constantly. Just as it sounds, it can very demanding and stressful. However, dating has it's upturns and cons. Dating can sooth your soul when you're restless after working long hours and days or doing large amounts of homework. It can calm you down and improve self esteem and probably make you feel confident about having relationships in college. Dating can also lead to your first marriage in which happens occasionally in college. At the end of the day you'll always have your partner with you throughout hard days in school as sown in the picture to the upper right. Otherwise it is a very big case to date in college.

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